It’s interesting to meet new people in our life. Suddenly we feel connected. We will have that eagerness to know about each other, to see in person and to spend time with each other. What we don’t realize is this is all temporary. Eventually this excitement will be over and we would move on searching for a new excitement in life. It’s weird, but bitter truth as well. The same person, whom we wanted to know or with whom we felt good being with, will suddenly feel like a burden. We will find a way to avoid them. It’s not intentional, but this is how we are.
When we know, this is how we are, it’s better to make the point clear to the person we are getting along with. Because, not everyone is like this and most of them would want the people in their life the same way they are. I would say, courageous are those who have the guts to accept how they are before getting along with the person. Like someone said; “In a world where everyone wears a mask, it’s a privilege to see a soul.”
So don’t worry about being judged. Those who are acquainted to judge others would do that, no matter what. Point is when you know how you are or who you are, why show something else? Accept how you are and never pretend what you are not! Remember, it’s better to be an honest arrogant rather than being a fake sweet person.
Ps : Sorry if this doesn’t make any sense to you. Wrote this based on my recent conversations with few acquaintances and friends.
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wandering thoughts of mine 